9 ways to talk with successful with women and make them love
The same is true with women. Not all women are created equal. What makes each person is that they are wonderful people. Everyone has their own loves and hates, hopes and dreams.
I know it seems hopeless. If all women are different people with different tastes and ideas, how in the name of all that Santo can learn to talk to each of them? Do not be afraid! What I will share with you a secret. It is the secret of how to talk to everyone, no matter who they are and to generate interest and ultimately love with them.
1. Look beyond the facade and see the real person underneath.
Under clothing and fur bones, we are perfect people. We baggage and terrible things in our past that haunt us, but these things are not and we know.
No one likes to remember the bad parts of themselves or their painful past. What we are most proud of is that we are by nature. We are very proud of the perfect person below. When talking to a woman (or man or child) looking for the right person and talk about him.
In some people, it is easier to see this perfect person in others, and somehow hidden by strange nickname personalities and other unusual baggage that is almost missing. If the person you speak of, it is very difficult to get that perfect person below, go ahead. Find someone who does not have much luggage. And whatever you do, do not waste your time talking to the pseudo personalities. They are simply not worth it.
2. Take the time to find common ground and common understanding.
Practice this skill. Go to the supermarket or in a place where you have to interact with people. To reach the exit, find something you like about the person to pay.
I think women love jewelry and take time and effort to choose and use parts that look good. If you find a piece of jewelry on them and you comment favorably about them, you will be met with the person looking and you and not see someone nameless, faceless. It starts automatically feel a little better about yourself.
3. Report of the speaker itself.
This is the easy part. You must not be dazzling or brilliant. All you need to be a good listener and respond to things that are relevant to the issue at hand. It really is a piece of cake.
For example, you just rave reviews on a piece of jewelry (or sweater or scarf) and the conversation began. Usually they tell you a little of the room. “Oh, my mother bought me for my birthday!” Then smile and say, “What a great mom you”, or something you know you’ll agree!.
Resist the urge to forcefully start talking about you. This conversation has to do with it. If you keep this every time you go through the command line, you will soon realize that they are friends. From there, an invitation for coffee is a great step to get to know each other.
4. Avoid topics that do not agree.
There is no faster way to make someone hate your guts to take a contrary view to them and then try to convince them they are wrong. Suppose your nice visit has accepted your invitation for coffee! Hooray! This is a big step. Do not blow now try to impress her with how smart, big or strong you are and how stupid, weak, and it is wrong. If you do this, this will be their last date and not have to blame but yourself. Rather than finding things that are in agreement.
If you do not agree policy, avoid topics as I had five days old burrito piece just unearthed under the sofa, because their negative comments on the subject will be about as welcome. Stick to things that are quite okay and you’ll be fine.
5. Do not violate your personal space.
His beautiful secretary is a woman. She has had her share of guys who are trying to cope with it and approach. Giving respect your space. Try to move in too close when she is not ready for this, it is a violation of their limits. For her, it can mean that if you violate the limits now, who knows the limits of what is violated when you allow your world?
6. Make your personal hygiene handles!
Brush your teeth and comb your hair. Not feel bad! I know I should not have to say, but sometimes people do not know that smell. Make sure you do not! If you just had coffee and a cigarette, chewing gum or something!
Check your teeth and make sure it is not stuck in them. all rumpled are not considered attractive unless it is wrinkled. Paying a little attention to your wardrobe. A clean look and do not wear old clothes worn threadbare. No one will respect you if you do not respect yourself and your appearance is an indicator of their level of respect for yourself.
Do not worry if you are a little overweigh or feel you are too short or have any other personal characteristic that bothers you. Most people do not realize these things. If they do and do not want to talk to you because of them, that are not worth it anyway. Continue! There are many wonderful women out there who are looking for someone who cares and you pretty.
7. What about gifts?
Most people love gifts, but there are times when gifts are not welcome. Let’s say you and your beautiful used today is having dinner together tonight. It is perfectly appropriate to give her flowers, but do not give her flowers, chocolate in heart shaped box and a new car.
She will not be subject to an obligation and too many gifts to make her feel that she must now do something for you. While this may sound good, it feels horrible. Have you been here at work and forget that day was pure chance that brought nothing? How did you feel? Is he went to tell everyone that has forgotten that he was pot luck day and ate only chips? Do you sneak in the back and give everything to lose because the requirement was too? You see what I mean?
If you want to impress, wash and clean your car. Asked what kind of movie you like or what you like to eat and make reservations at a restaurant that you know love. Take time to create a night it’s magic. What will impress is the care and respect he had for her to take that time.
8. Choose carefully!
Remember! all women are not desirable only because they are women or because they are beautiful. A snake can kill and still pretty woman who is negative, antagonistic, aggressive or passive (also called secretly hostile) will make your life and the life of any child who may be miserable.
Think ahead before turning serious. If you find that your future wife is one of those guys, give a hearty “farewell, auf wiedershen far and do not let the screen door, hit you in the ass on the way!”
A warm and loving woman with a twinkle in his eye and a sense of humor is much more desirable than a pretty psycho. Beauty may fade with time when it is only on the surface. The real beauty that you see when you see the perfect person below is forever. Life is a challenging game and only someone who has integrity, compassion and commitment will be there for you when you really need.
The others, if they are self-centered or psycho long gone when they need a friend more.
9. Recognize when she is not interested and move on.
Face it, even if you’re wonderful, dazzling and bright, it may not be to someone like cherries or a bowl of tea so that the future is a material concerned boyfriend. He is coming. While it is clear she does not want a relationship, then fine. You are not ill and do it. Maybe you can be friends. You can never have too many nice people in his life.