Making an Awesome Long Distance Relationship Work Perfectly for Ever
Many people believe that long-distance relationships never work. Your family can he and some of his best friends discourage can advise you not to take too seriously, if your heart is broken.
Nobody says it will be easy – the extra distance makes it much inaccessible. Things could get complicated, and you might get sad and lonely sometimes. However, the extra distance also makes things easier sweetest, be able to hold the hand of the other person, eat together at the same table, feeling the contact with the other, taking a walk together, feeling … those little hairs suddenly desires could mean much in a long distance relationship.
long distance relationship can be difficult, but it also has its own surprises. To keep your love alive and strong, here are 18 tips to make your long distance relationship work:
1. Avoid excessive communication.
It is unwise to be too “sticky” and possessive. You two really do not communicate 12 hours a day to maintain the relationship. Many thought torques necessary to compensate for distance from increasing. This is wrong. And it could make things worse. Soon you are tired of remembering “love.” Less is more. This is not spam – will run out. It really teases at the right time and pulling the right places.
2. See it as an opportunity.
“If you live together, you must first learn to live apart.” – Anonymous
See as a learning journey for you both. They see it as proof of his love for others. As the Chinese proverb says “genuine gold is not afraid of the competition.” Instead of thinking that this long distance relationship pulls the two apart, you must believe that through this experience, both joined him even stronger.
Emma tells Will in the fourth season of Glee,
“I’d rather be here, away from you, but feeling very close, not close to you, but feel very good.” – Emma, Glee Season 4
3. Set ground rules to manage your expectations.
Both need to be clear about what you expect from each other during this long distance relationship. Set ground rules so that none of you do things that take the other party by surprise. For example, you two exclusive? Is it acceptable for the other person to go on dates? What is your level of commitment? It is best to be open with each other about all these things.
4. Try to communicate regularly and creatively.
The greeting “hello” and “good evening” every day – this is a must. In addition, try to update your partner in your life and your event, but some mundane things may seem. For the game, send images, audio clips and short videos from time to time. By putting in this kind of effort to make the other person feel loved and cared for.
5. Talk dirty to another.
The sexual tension is definitely one of the most important things between couples. Sexual desire is like a glue that holds both sides of alienation. Gender is not only a biological necessity, it is an emotional as well. Keep burning flames and share the full texts of provocative sexual innuendo and provocative descriptions. attractive word games work pretty well.
6. Avoid “dangerous” situations.
If you already know that going to the club or drinking with friends for the night dislike your partner, then you should not be either 1 or 2. Tell your partner in advance to reassure him / her. Do not be careless about such things because your partner will not be worried or more suspicion, and, of course, very angry, because he / she is placed in a position where he / she feels helpless additional / lack of control.
Moreover, it might be easier for you to fall into the trap, unwittingly or not, set for itself in “going out” with his eye office candy after work, or go out with a girl or a boy from her past that He was flirting with you. You must recognize the dangers before entering the situation. Do not just listen to your heart? Listen to your mind as well.
7. Do things together.
Play an online game together. Watch a documentary on YouTube or Vimeo, at the same time. Sing to each other via Skype, while one of you plays the guitar. “Take a walk together” while video calls to other Go online-shopping together -. And buy gifts to each other (see No. 13) You have to really be creative and spontaneous about it.
8. do similar things.
Recommend books, TV shows, movies, music, news and etc. each other. As you read, see and hear the same things, you get to have more problems in common to talk about. What is good to create a shared experience despite living separately.
9. Making visits to the other.
The visits are the highlight of every long distance relationship. After all the waiting and the desire and abstinence finally know each other to meet all the little things like kissing, holding hands, etc., that are common to other couples, but an intimate and very special way more people in long distance relationships. It will be like fireworks, glitter bombs, confetti, rainbow and butterflies everywhere.
10. Have a goal in mind.
“What we want to achieve at the end of the day?” “How long will we be apart?” “What about the future?” These are questions you need to ask the same two. the truth is that any couple can be in a long distance relationship forever. Eventually, we all have to install.
So make a plan together. Make a schedule marked by the estimated time of the distance and time together, and draw a final goal. It is important that you both are on the same page and the same goals. So even if you do not live in the same space and the same time zone, the two work together in the same direction towards a future that includes all others.
11. Enjoy your time alone and time with friends and family.
You are alone, but not only, unless you choose to win. You should not leave your world revolves around your partner – you still, your friends and family. Take this time aside to do more with friends and family. Go to the gym more often. Get a new hobby. Binge-watch shows. There are many things to do for you who does not understand your partner.
12. Stay honest with each other.
Talking about your feelings of fear, insecurity, jealousy, apathy, at all. If you try to hide anything from your partner, which secretes sooner or later it will engulf the interior. Do not try to settle things by himself. Be open and honest with others. Let your partner help and give you the support you need. it is best to look at the problem in the first of what will be revealed only when it is too late.
13. Knowing each time.
It is useful to know when the other person is busy and when he / she is free, so you can drop a text or make a call at the right time. You do not want to disturb your partner when he / she is in the middle class or the middle of a business meeting. Knowing the big and small events taking place or will take place in the life of another, for example, mid-terms and university examinations, travel and important business meetings, job interviews and etc. This is especially important when the two of you live in different time zones.
14. Keep track of other media activities.
Like the other pictures on Facebook and Instagram. Other updates. Tagging each other. Actions things on the walls of each. Show that you care. Be good stalking each other.
15. Present a personal item of the other person staying there.
There is a power in a memory. Whether a small pendant, a ring, a keychain, a CD of songs and videos, or a bottle of perfume. Often, we assign meanings to things and objects found in everyday life, whether knowingly or not. That’s what we all do – we try to store memories in physical things, with the hope that when our mind we lack, we can look at or hold on to something that will help you remember. That’s why something so simple can mean so much to a person, while others may see little or no value in it.
16. Get a good email application.
This is extremely important because text messaging is the most frequent and common form of communication you both. good messaging application on their phones that allow interactions beyond words and emoticons is necessary.
I personally use this messaging application called LINE. I find it very effective because it has a huge reserve of “tags” playful and fun that are free for users to use. You can also go to the application of “Sticker Shop” to download additional stickers on different topics (eg Hello Kitty, Pokemon, Snoopy, and Marvel etc.) at a low price. Occasionally, the application also provides sets of free stickers for different promotions. This mail application is cute and easy to learn to use.
17. Snail mail!
Post each other postcards and handwritten love letters. Send gifts to each other around the world from time to time. Deliveries of flowers on birthdays, anniversaries and Valentine’s Day. Online shopping and other surprises with fresh shirts, underwear for sexy and such.
18. Maintain a positive attitude.
You must be constant injection of positive energy in the long distance relationship to keep it alive. Yes, the wait can be painful and can sometimes feel alone but remember that fruits at the end will be sweet as heaven. A good trick to keep a positive attitude is to thank all the time. Thank you to have someone to love – someone who loves you back. Be grateful for the small things, like the letter by hand safely to your mailbox the other day. Be thankful for the health and safety of others.
19. Maintain the families of each other and friends.
Because of gossip and scandals are always the best things going and.
20. Video call whenever possible.
Because look into the eyes of others and hear the voices of others can do everything feels good again.
21. Give all pet names.
Because he’s cute. the caramelized remains.