Making a Perfect Choice
Jennifer Lawrence practically became a household name after she accepted the lead role in the upcoming films The Hunger Games, based on successful novels of Suzanne Collins. But despite playing tough girl knew Katniss Everdeen would make his career, Jennifer recently confessed he waited three days to accept the role because she was stressed how his life would change.
Like Jennifer, we all have to make difficult decisions. Of course, he could not have character to accept an offer to star in a film surefire-to-be, but do any great big move is strange. Follow these expert tips to ensure the next decision you make will be the best for you.
1. Go with your gut
One study found that when making simple decisions (as cereals to buy), it pays to be rational. But when it comes to the larger (like the work to take), it is better to listen to your instincts. That does not mean you should buy a car on a whim, but if you’ve weighed the pros and cons and still can not reach a conclusion, let his speedy trial is the tie and go with what just feels right .
2. Lower the Mojito
There’s a reason Google Mail Goggles was invented: Cocktails make it easier to act. Although one drink can relax while you’re agonizing over a choice, more than that can cloud your judgment.
3. sleep on it … but only for one night
Researchers say that unconscious deliberation (ie, getting close eye) can help you analyze your options and come to a conclusion, so that people will often tell you to sleep on it. However, mashing a decision for too long means you are not comfortable with any of the options before and you have to consider alternatives.
4. enter a stress-free state
It goes for a proper haircut after being fired and could end up looking less than amazing. The reason is they tend to act rashly when we are nervous or upset. Research suggests that anxiety not only makes it harder to solve something, but actually makes you more likely to come to the wrong conclusion. So if you’re struggling with her boyfriend while choosing between two apartments, try to resolve the disagreement quickly so you can make a more lucid resolution. And since one study found that stress has a residual effect, wait a few days after having kissed and made up before forking over your security deposit.
5. Talk it over with a few chosen
Talk about your situation with close friends, your mother, or who you trust to give an honest opinion is a good idea. Hash your options allows you to process further decision, and listen to the perspectives of others (if you agree with them or not) can help you reach a more informed – conclusion – and better.
6. However, avoid arguing with everyone
So you know that the operation of its decision last some key people in your life is intelligent. But it is best to keep your hairdresser, coach, and barista outside. Asking too many opinions – especially people who do not know so well – you can leave with a lot of conflict (not to mention bad) advice. Before seeking the opinion of someone, ask yourself if the person is really in a position to know what is best for you. If the answer is no, keep it to yourself.
7. Consider the long-term consequences
Some decisions make sense in the short term, but long term can be disastrous. For example, tell your guy cheated once, three years ago, can alleviate his guilt, but probably cause to break with you. Similarly, doing things like sitting in the sun or having unprotected sex can often feel right at the time, but these toxic behaviors have serious health ramifications.
A good rule of thumb: Play out every possible scenario in your mind … and consider the result (in their health, feelings of a friend or boyfriend in your credit card bill – whatever) before making a controversial decision.
8. Do not leave it to chance
It can be dangerous to make an important decision that changes your life based on what your horoscope tells you to do. While it is definitely fun to let these things affect small decisions (which dress to wear on a date, if you should ask a guy), the biggest things (shedding her boyfriend, moving around the country) should not be left hands of stars.
9. fly out of thugs who are pressuring you
When struggling with a decision, it can be easy to get carried away in one direction by someone who has selfish motives – whether a seller who speaks in buying a pair of shoes you can not afford or their parents being all up in your grill to go to graduate school in particular. Distancing of the person or people you press while tidying his thoughts. And if that is not possible, pretend you’re advising a friend on the matter, which will help to act more logical and guilt-free way.
10. Remember that you can not always use the past to predict the future
Especially when you’re making a choice that will seriously affect your bank account or lifestyle, it is important not to rely simply on experience. In our rapidly changing world, experts recommend evaluating each new opportunity with a fresh mind. What it could have been a shrewd move a few years ago – like buying a house or leave your concert to 5 to put 9 start your own business – could wreak havoc on your life today.